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What is the family soul?
How do I find out who my issue is related to?
How do I know what issue to work on?
What is a soul entanglement?
Will my session affect my family or partner?
Can children do this work?
How many sessions are needed?
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Your entire family system is governed by one soul. The family soul is an energy field that organizes and informs your family with an intelligence that follows certain universal laws. The main task of the family soul is to remain whole and it will do so at all costs. This is why if a member of your family was mistreated or is excluded in some way, you may be representing them in some way. Although, seemingly unfair, this ensures the survival of your family. The family soul also shows us that the dead are still having an affect on the living, and the living on the dead.
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How do I find out who my issue is related to?
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| Here are some basic guidelines to finding out who is a part of your family soul, and who may be having the greatest affect on you. It is unnecessary to know all the facts about your family history, but you can use these questions to help guide you. Once we have the information it is the constellation itself which will guide us.
Who are the children, including stillborn children, abortions, miscarriages or those that died early?
Who are your siblings, including those that have died early.
Who are your parents and their siblings, including any who have died early.
Who are your grandparents?
Are you adopted, or did other people or an institution (such as an orphanage, hospital or foster parents) take care of you?
Has anyone else been adopted or were any children abandoned?
Has anyone died or suffered illness from giving birth?
Sometimes great grandparents and further back, depending on their role in the family and their fates.
Has your family immigrated from another country? Why?
Did anyone in your family have to make room for the advantage of the rest of the system? For example former partners of your parents?
Did anyone experience misfortune or death that created a gain for your family? For example workers who weren’t treated right that have created your family’s money?
Have you or anyone else in your family had a special or difficult fate such as illness, dying young, abuse or a handicap?
Do you know of anyone who has been excluded from your family because of their ethnicity, sexual preference, alcoholism , a crime or any other reason?
Were there any victims of abuse, violence or murder by any members of your family?
Has anyone experienced any other life threatening events?
Has anyone had a bad accident, is accident prone or leads a reckless life?
Has anyone wanted to or attempted suicide?
Did anyone in your family die or serve during a war? Have there been any war crimes committed?
Does anyone in your family suffer from mental or physical illness?
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How Do I Know What Issue To Work On?
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If you are unsure what issue will be best served by this work we can figure it out together. Often a person will make an hour long appointment to consult with me. If you don't want to do this and you are truly open to seeing what comes up, your issue will make itself very clear as we are sitting together right before the constellation. Sometimes as you witness other clients work you suddenly get a flash of what to work on. I often ask, "What is it you want to see happen?", or "What is your burning desire?".
Sometimes we begin the work and the Field itself will strongly take it in another dircetion. This then clarifies what the true issue is. Your trust in your Soul will always tell you the direction to go in.
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What is a soul entanglement?
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An entanglement and its destructive consequences happen when a member of the family wants to leave the system, is dying or has a difficult misfortune.
A later member, usually a child, will unconsciously try to step in to prevent this by going instead. Or they may try to atone for the guilt of the earlier member or follow them into death or illness to be with them.
Often entanglements happen between members of the family who never even knew each other.
All soul entanglements are based on a very deep love and loyalty within the system. But it is a blind love that is unaware of the larger consequences.
Examples of soul entanglements:
1) A mother is dying. Her child feel this and unconsciously says “I’ll follow you”. Later this child, as an adult, develops a life threatening illness.
2) A grandfather exploited his workers out of greed. Later his grandson consistently fails in business to atone for his Grandfather’s unfelt guilt and in representation of the victims.
3) A woman aborts a child and does not grieve the loss. Later she feels incapable to lead a life with purpose or meaning.
4) A man is unable to marry or find satisfaction in relationship. He is still bonded to an earlier partner.
5) A man dies of AIDS. He is representing the victims of the war that his grandfather fought in.
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Will my session affect my family or partner?
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Yes. It is unnecessary to bring your family or partner for this work to have a noticeable impact on the whole system. Also, since this is deep systemic energy work, it can be done just as effectively long distance. Clients report that they feel it as it is being done and that their family members also shift very rapidly.
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Can children or people with mental disabilities do this work?
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I do not work directly with children in constellations as the energy field is too amplified for them. However, parents often come to help their children. It is actually more appropriate that the parents, or parent, come as the entanglement usually has to do with the parents anyway.
I can do Soul Energetics work with children in a field that I create specifically for them.
People with mental disabilities may be in the Field for periods of time depending on their needs. If they are unable to be there, their parents or aids may come on their behalf.
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How many sessions are needed?
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This form of therapy has been called “the briefest of brief therapies”. The number of sessions varies from client to client. If a person has had a long standing or complex illness, or has had a particularly difficult fate we may work over a longer period of time. Many clients only need a few sessions to clear an issue. This also depends on the clients ability to receive the huge holographic shift that has occurred and integrate it into their lives. Follow up short term counseling is helpful for this. The most effective and efficient approach I have seen is for clients to do the Soul Energetics work along side the constellation work.
Both are extremely strong medicine that go directly to the core and create permanent shifts.
It is also possible to clear your issue by simply attending a workshop and not actually setting up your own issue. It is the field itself which heals if you are deeply in tune with it. This is why people return again and again just to be representatives.
I suggest that clients doing the Soul Energetics work do a minimum of 5 sessions close together. Doing the first two in the same week creates a large enough shift that sessions after that are easier and go deeper. Again, this work is so strong that doing fewer sessions over time still works, it just prolongs the full healing that is possible.
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